You Always Have a Choice

Choose to live by choice, not by chance.

 

Have you ever felt so overwhelmed by your life circumstances that you felt completely trapped? Maybe you even believed there was no other choice so you surrendered to the situation instead of consciously creating your life? It can happen.

I want to let you in on a secret: You have the power to make a new choice.

When you understand that in every moment you can always choose a new thought, a new response or a different action, you shift from feeling like a helpless victim of circumstance to being a powerful creator of your life.

When you have a victim mentality you blame others for your unhappiness and passively wait for something in your life to improve. I’ve been there and I can tell you that you can wait for as long as you want but nothing shifts until you choose something different for yourself. You have to choose to become the heroine of your own life.

I know it can feel like you don’t have a choice when disaster strikes. But you do.

You always have a choice.

Sometimes we think we don’t have a choice when in fact we just don’t want to acknowledge the choice we need to make. We are scared to make a change. Yet we are already making thousands of choices every day.

Some of those choices are simple, such as what time to get up for work or what to eat for dinner. Other choices are bigger and carry more impact. A move to a new city, or a change in career can alter your life path. In every moment of your day you can access the power to choose something new and it is the accumulation of those choices that creates your life.

When you realize your choices have brought you to where you are today, you realize you have a whole lot of power. Granted, we can’t always control what goes on around us, but we can always choose how we respond to the situation.

You are the creator of your life.

You are responsible for everything you are experiencing- the good, the bad, and the ugly. Accept this as good news. You created this situation you are currently experiencing which means you have the power to create something different for yourself by making a different choice.

When we don’t take responsibility for our choices and we remain stuck, whether that is in an unhealthy relationship, a poor state of health or continue to fret over an empty bank account, we are in fact making a choice. We are making the choice to stay paralyzed, fearful, and a victim. It’s easy to whine about unhappy we are or how unfair life is. It is a whole lot harder to take action. From my own personal experience and the clients I work with, I know that when you make the choice to choose something more for yourself, life starts to shift.

The courageous women I work with dig deep to face their fears and say yes to new choices that support their dream. The shift that occurs when a woman suddenly acknowledges she isn’t stuck and has choices, is truly phenomenal. I’ve been honoured to witness the transformation a client experiences when she claims her power of choice. It is a visible change which brings along with it instant shifts in energy, fortitude and radiance. It’s as though she suddenly wakes up to the magic in her life.

No matter how you are feeling right now, you always have a choice. You might not be able to see it, but you do.

You don’t need to go it alone.

If you need some help shining light on your choices or require support in making a hard decision, I am here for you. Email me and let’s talk about how I can help you in creating a life you love by harnessing your power of choice.

That life that you have been secretly been craving is possible. It is right there in front of you just waiting for you. The first step is claiming it is choosing to take responsibility for your life and it all starts with a choice.

With love and light,

 

xo